Daughters are Special Gift....!!!

 

Daughters are Special Gift….!!!

From the time immemorable, many stalwarts have written a lot about Daughters, and I thought it would be apt to join the band wagon and pen on this incredibly special subject called ‘DAUGHTERS’!  World over, this week is celebrated as ‘Daughters Week’ and it triggered my enthusiasm as well to share my candid feelings…..!!

Every man in this World aspires for a Daughter, the reason is unknown and beyond words.  It is just a natural instinct to aspire for a daughter.  When a daughter is born the Father is so excited and instantly starts feeling a sense of extra responsibility of guarding her from a toddler to her adolescent age.  He takes pride in all small things that his daughters does.  Although, his Wife, becomes little insecure as there is bound to be some competition in everything thereafter.  I guess no house is complete without a daughter.  The warmth and glitter they add during festivities are amazing to say the least.

Daughters are very caring, and sensitive to the needs of their Parents, especially to one’s Father.  The Father on his part tries to give all the happiness to his Princess.  And when the time  of her marriage comes; this will be the most difficult part in a Man’s life.  On one side he will be so delighted that he is handing over his Princess to the man of her dreams and on the other he will be so emotional that his daughter will part from him to stay with her Husband for the rest of her life.  As far as I know, I have not heard or seen any Father being so strong enough and not to shed a tear or two during the separation.  Men show their emotions however hard they may try to control it.  Innumerable songs on this aspect of separation from Father’s house is written till date and all songs have been a huge hit for the simple reason of its sanctity.  

After the daughter or daughters move to their respective husband’s house the Father’s house wears an empty and void look.  The laughter, celebrations and festivities losses its sheen and does not remain the same.  Parents eagerly wait for their daughter to visit them although they know she shall come only as a guest in her own house.  This is Life….. and as Parents we have no choice but to take solace in the past glorious memories!!!

 

Comments

  1. UnknownSeptember 29, 2020 at 6:19 AM

    Well written Navneeth, the emotional attachment especially to Dad is like a lifeline, and parting cannot be expressed just in any exclusive words. Only the heart feels the wound created at that point.
    I too travelled along with you in yoy expression about the DAUGHTER, Though physically yet to be gifted as atleast as in-law.,,,

    ReplyDelete
  2. UnknownSeptember 29, 2020 at 6:20 AM

    Read yoy as your, sorry

    ReplyDelete
  3. muraliSeptember 29, 2020 at 11:55 AM

    Well expressed, You are right Navneeet Bhai.

    ReplyDelete
  4. UnknownSeptember 30, 2020 at 3:45 AM

    Very Very very true Sir,no one can fill the vaccum after our daughter's go to their husband house,very painful.

    ReplyDelete
  5. UnknownSeptember 30, 2020 at 11:25 PM

    Its a very wonderful relationship. When she is a child you become fresh on seeing her after the days toiling. When she is growing up you to grow but never realise. When she is married with her every going step your age steps in and all of a sudden you age to oldness.

    Then she visits your home you are both joyous and your predicament is delicate as she considers her husband's home as her home, you never know its your upbringing or the social norm.

    ReplyDelete
  6. RavindraOctober 12, 2020 at 5:31 AM

    I still feel they're there if not near. It's easy to let go Son.
    Experienced with friends, who have daughter,/s, they are different.
    We have seen different stages of our life and near ones. Now the life is taking and showing us the present situation. There is no other way than to accept.

    The distance should not matter, they are in your heart. Time to learn UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

    Love.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Image
                          A Tribute to A Living Legend - Sri.AL.Mutiah on His 91st Birthday As we approach a momentous occasion on the 25th of October, we celebrate the 91st birthday of our beloved Chairman—a guiding light and an enduring source of inspiration for the MAL Group. Today, we honour not just a leader, but a man whose vision, wisdom, and unwavering dedication have shaped our group of companies for decades. For those of us, who have had the privilege to work under his leadership, we know him not only as a chairman but as a beacon of perseverance and integrity.  His steady hand and remarkable foresight have navigated the MAL Group through some of its most challenging times, and his commitment to excellence has set the standard for us all.  Even at 91, his enthusiasm for progress and passion for our industry is unparalleled, a testament to his boundless energy and love for th...
Read more
  GoSavvy Goes Global!!! We had planned to take a one-week break and approached Mr.Abhijit Bhandari, who heads our travel vertical – GoSavvy . No sooner had I mentioned our plans than the GoSavvy team took complete charge, requesting a free hand in planning and scheduling our travels. On the penultimate day of our trip, our children bombarded us with questions, concerned about the ongoing conflict between India and Pakistan. But Abhijit confidently assured us that our travel route was safe — we were flying south of the hemisphere. Much to our relief, that very evening, both nations declared a truce. As scheduled, we boarded a late-night flight from Namma Bengaluru to Hanoi , followed by a connecting flight to Da Nang .   Upon arrival, we were warmly received by our smiling guide – Andy , holding a placard. What caught my eye and stirred my heart was the GoSavvy logo alongside our names. A thrill ran through me — and in that moment, I whispered to myself, “GoSavvy has ma...
Read more